"When my mom died. That was one of the most horrific times of my life...There was this moment when I could barely remember what was going on around me, and I can remember crawling upstairs in my house and curling up in a ball just crying... not wanting anyone to know where I was. There are times in your life where you don't talk to your closest friends for a while but then there are moments when you're laying, crying, not knowing how to handle the next minute, let alone the next day, and your best friend shows up. And that's what is friendship. That's what does it. That's what gets you through. And I was surprised, not because I was surprised that she showed up, but because there had been such an absence and then there she was. There was that moment of complete and utter comfort........and then she scrubbed my bathroom floor."